Aren't all men supposed to want sex?

If so, why didn’t he want to have sex with me?

I was embarrassed and ashamed.

How could I be in a sexless relationship? (A sexless relationship is defined as having sex 10 or fewer times per year.)

And I didn’t know what I was doing wrong.

I signed up for workshops on blow jobs and orgasms and tantric massage.

Nothing was working.

I didn’t want to cheat…And I didn’t… But not having sex was taking a toll on me. I was cranky. You know you get cranky too when you ain’t getting any on a regular basis.

Just me?

Yeah OK.

And then one day I told someone what was going on. She said she was going thru the same thing. I wasn’t alone. I understood her plight and was a tad relieved I wasn’t the only one experiencing this.

Turns out quite a few women were experiencing this but were afraid to talk about it. They were trying to figure out what was wrong. And for some reason, they were talking to me about it. Well, I am easy to talk to. 🙂

Then I realized something… I could help other couples in this situation.

So I went back to school and became a Certified Sex Counselor. And that’s how the Gen SeXologist was born.

My Story

Hi, I’m Renée, your go-to sexologist and founder of PleasureRx, where chemistry meets connection! I help Gen Xers and Baby Boomers reignite the spark in their relationships and rediscover intimacy, passion, and pleasure.

My clients are often navigating sexless relationships, low libido, or a little too much "same-old, same-old" in the bedroom—so I mix humor, heart, and expert advice to create playful, practical solutions for a sex life that never gets old. From my Pleasure Palace membership to fun and engaging workshops like Pleasure That Penis, I’m all about empowering singles and couples 50+ to communicate their desires and experience wildly satisfying intimacy.

When I’m not in the "Love Lab," you’ll find me creating content, teaching workshops, or planning my next juicy e-course.

Let’s connect and talk about keeping life spicy, one pleasurable moment at a time! 

Why I Do This Work

As a Gen Xer, I know we had terrible sex ed in school. No one – and I mean no one – tells you what to do or how to experience pleasure sexually.

I also know everyone deserves to feel desired and wanted, have amazing sex, and mind-altering orgasms. I want to help other Gen Xers who are struggling with connecting to their partners. I want to help YOU have blissful orgasms. I want to help YOU be brave enough to communicate, have fun, be adventurous, and be curious about trying new things.

There shouldn’t be any more shyness about sex. We should feel comfortable talking about what makes us all wet and juicy. The world needs more sexually satisfied people and I am on a mission to help people who aren’t happy and satisfied sexually make those changes to achieve and prioritize their pleasure.

I want to show you how to experience pleasure sexually, emotionally, and physically.